Bend Family Resources

This site will continue to be updated as we receive resources, please send us resources you are certain are available to office@rop.org.

Rhoam Summer’s Family

Dinosaur and shark art for Rhoam: Rhoam's parents would be grateful for drawings, crafts or artwork of sharks and/or dinosaurs. Rhoam was a huge lover of big teeth and "misunderstood" animals. These representations fo his favorite animals will be used to help with his celebration of life ceremony. Send art to: Lillian & Kelik Summerc/o Heather Arnett320 SW Century DrSTE 405 PMB #217Bend, OR 97702

Victim’s Family

Injured Child’s Family

Injured Teacher Ms. Becky

Kaylub Giamanco

Community Mutual Aid

  • People looking to donate food, beverages, counseling support, and more to the community members affected by this tragedy can reach out directly to Deschutes County Health Services at healthservices@deschutescounty.org.
  • Marissa Hurley is collecting donations of kids’ books, small toys, and especially sensory toys like squishies, Play-Doh, art kits, kinetic sand, etc. for the children who live near Silver Rail and were affected by recent events. These items will be going into a free library for easy access for the children since they can’t access the one at their school. She’ll be delivering the donations at a location in Stone Creek where affected families can access them. If you have anything to donate, please message her (541-419-8738).

Deschutes County Health Services

Deschutes County Health Services, St. Charles Health System, and Bend-La Pine Schools are partnering to host free, walk-in community support events. Free and open to all students, families, staff, and community members.

COPA (Central Oregon Pediatric Associates): Recent posts providing support for talking with kids

Sandy Hook Promise – Resources for victims and survivors of school gun violence

Crisis support, 24/7: Call or text 988 (988lifeline.org) for the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. It’s free and confidential, in English and Spanish.

YouthLine: Free peer-to-peer support and crisis line for youth up to age 24. Call 877-968-8491 or text “teen2teen” to 839863. Youth available 4-10 pm (PST), adults available all other times.

Help coping after community violence: Call or text 1-800-985-5990 for the Disaster Distress Helpline, which offers 24/7 crisis counseling after trauma or tragedy.

The Everytown Survivor Network: (everytownsupportfund.org/everytown-survivor-network) offers emotional support, community connections, and information on victim compensation programs.

Community Partners that are providing offerings of comfort and community care. Check with organization/business directly to see current offerings:

Free Grief Ceremony

All Together Now

A community singalong for Hope and Healing, hosted by KPOV.

Friday, Oct 23 6-730pm

Commonwealth Pub, Bend

Join your community on Friday 10/23 as we raise our voices together through familiar songs celebrating hope, love, resilience, and the port of community. No singing experience needed. Just come as you are, bring your heart and share in the comfort and joy of music.

Allyship in Action has compiled a more comprehensive list of support resources than what is below that they are continuing to update.

Open Arts Center

High Desert Museum – Free Admission

Tea & Art Lounge – Free Art Activities for Kids

Two Suns Art Studio + Makerspace – Creative materials and hands-on tools for expression for Silver Rail families

Bo’s – Free meals

almadorada – Free hot cocoa and drip coffee

Aqua Terra Health: Free community acupuncture and a safe space to gather, connect, and support one another. Details on this Instagram post.

The Haven Coworking: The Haven’s doors are open to anyone who needs a place to gather, find comfort, or simply be surrounded by community. Children are welcome, too. Located at 1001 SW Disk Dr.