{"id":40520,"date":"2026-10-16T11:10:56","date_gmt":"2026-10-16T18:10:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/rop.org\/?post_type=resource&#038;p=40520"},"modified":"2026-10-22T09:44:32","modified_gmt":"2026-10-22T16:44:32","slug":"bend-family-resources","status":"publish","type":"resource","link":"https:\/\/rop.org\/zh\/resources\/bend-family-resources\/","title":{"rendered":"Bend Family Resources"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This site will continue to be updated as we receive resources, please send us resources you are certain are available to <a href=\"mailto:office@rop.org\">office@rop.org<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Rhoam Summer\u2019s Family<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.mealtrain.com\/trains\/42e92m\">Meal Train<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.gofundme.com\/f\/coming-together-for-the-summer-family\">GoFundMe<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP\/\/\/yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7\" data-src=\"https:\/\/rop.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/unnamed1.jpg\" alt=\"Dinosaur and shark art for Rhoam: Rhoam&#039;s parents would be grateful for drawings, crafts or artwork of sharks and\/or dinosaurs. Rhoam was a huge lover of big teeth and &quot;misunderstood&quot; animals. These representations fo his favorite animals will be used to help with his celebration of life ceremony. Send art to: \nLillian &amp; Kelik Summer\nc\/o Heather Arnett\n320 SW Century Dr\nSTE 405 PMB #217\nBend, OR 97702\" class=\"wp-image-40568 lazyload\" style=\"aspect-ratio:0.798950491559222;width:446px;height:auto\"><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"767\" height=\"960\" src=\"https:\/\/rop.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/unnamed1.jpg\" alt=\"Dinosaur and shark art for Rhoam: Rhoam&#039;s parents would be grateful for drawings, crafts or artwork of sharks and\/or dinosaurs. Rhoam was a huge lover of big teeth and &quot;misunderstood&quot; animals. These representations fo his favorite animals will be used to help with his celebration of life ceremony. Send art to: \nLillian &amp; Kelik Summer\nc\/o Heather Arnett\n320 SW Century Dr\nSTE 405 PMB #217\nBend, OR 97702\" class=\"wp-image-40568\" style=\"aspect-ratio:0.798950491559222;width:446px;height:auto\"><\/noscript><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Victim\u2019s Family<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.gofundme.com\/f\/ofs-donations?attribution_id=sl%3Afdd43ec1-bfee-490e-a5be-1d7333672721&amp;ts=1792180776&amp;utm_campaign=man_sharesheet_dash&amp;utm_content=amp30-treatment-4&amp;utm_medium=customer&amp;utm_source=copy_link&amp;utm_id=97757_v0_s00_e0_tv2_a1dennhb7kwc9r&amp;fbclid=IwY2xjawVEs9ZleHRuA2FlbQIxMQBwZG9mBXNydGMGYXBwX2lkEDIyMjAzOTE3ODgyMDA4OTIAAR7pYVmkHce_t2TF1e2ip2aUq2gJkojjq_WLjZhbuMv40Hx5q7ZjYfaXHZWRMA_aem_i8x0-0PVrE_VWpgRU22HfQ\">GoFundMe<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Injured Child\u2019s Family<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/gofund.me\/8e48a6d5c\">GoFundMe<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Injured Teacher Ms. Becky<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.gofundme.com\/f\/support-ms-beckys-healing-journey-ebb9g?attribution_id=sl:46e13e26-bc6c-4132-b6da-6949029c1db2&amp;lang=en_US&amp;ts=1792191032&amp;utm_campaign=fp_sharesheet&amp;utm_content=amp30-treatment-3&amp;utm_medium=customer&amp;utm_source=facebook\">GoFundMe<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Kaylub Giamanco<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.gofundme.com\/f\/stand-with-kaylub-supporting-a-father-who-p-x7jh5?attribution_id=sl:08c70184-5fad-419a-9878-8370dcf968db&amp;lang=en_US&amp;ts=1792174927&amp;utm_campaign=fp_sharesheet&amp;utm_content=amp30-treatment-3&amp;utm_medium=customer&amp;utm_source=facebook\">GoFundMe<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Community Mutual Aid<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>People looking to donate food, beverages, counseling support, and more to the community members affected by this tragedy can reach out directly to Deschutes County Health Services at <a href=\"mailto:healthservices@deschutescounty.org\">healthservices@deschutescounty.org<\/a>.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Marissa Hurley is collecting donations of kids\u2019 books, small toys, and especially sensory toys like squishies, Play-Doh, art kits, kinetic sand, etc. for the children who live near Silver Rail and were affected by recent events. These items will be going into a free library for easy access for the children since they can&#8217;t access the one at their school. She&#8217;ll be delivering the donations at a location in Stone Creek where affected families can access them. If you have anything to donate, please message her (541-419-8738).<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/share\/p\/1CNEtQXTt8\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>Deschutes County Health Services<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Deschutes County Health Services, St. Charles Health System, and Bend-La Pine Schools are partnering to host free, walk-in community support events. Free and open to all students, families, staff, and community members.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/COPAKids?__cft__[0]=AZifX2n1ZY7gGXYo8FfDRw18pz3_8XLrwL1bonyy7Ekdma_bhoDogEoMQbXVTuDRstBfDkW-Tl_lIxcleWJZRboU5ukyG8mbKWFyzLAExoO4UJSYbYLj8wvy8TPfIjGRZcRvkNjV8-Z-DQvOQQKhwqevv0UFseUry9txrTs8QKx7yqkZVnCHP3-1sHI&amp;__tn__=-UC%2CP-R\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>COPA (Central Oregon Pediatric Associates)<\/strong><\/a>: Recent posts providing support for talking with kids<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.sandyhookpromise.org\/resources\/ways-to-help\/help-for-victims-survivors-gun-violence\/\">Sandy Hook Promise<\/a><\/strong> \u2013 Resources for victims and survivors of school gun violence<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Crisis support, 24\/7:<\/strong> Call or text 988 (<a href=\"https:\/\/l.facebook.com\/l.php?u=http%3A%2F%2F988lifeline.org%2F%3Ffbclid%3DIwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTAAcGRvZgFicmlkETFsN3d6SjFzdjhOZ05BZHRWc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQQMjIyMDM5MTc4ODIwMDg5MgABHsvMbxe6qWQmAuXM9NN5hoZD9BwNi2vFQJoWwZmB-En-dNHet1mSfGgBgM4G_aem_dz78MMwwdhew31iZZxso-w&amp;h=AUAZFUSx8oPPYdUy5_eDkpdv7rj1KlvZHWu34fMWHn5UUdZZ44hhYR0fA_W4wSegYkBZoMD25agkoodbGKMOekpWKAC8WdQyecxkOVVCuvDa9Z4sBF3kTsF5Z6DcEudEg5IUUolO_8T4HjiXtDBW&amp;__tn__=-UK-R&amp;c[0]=AUBkOoUVEF6AA1g0546dwAVBitAjVVhUr-vrmU-KBH2ufmyMa55SgQpRKMsS81iyxRIPh44D6Kp8s2JxKp_vY1gzW0yGG91gnjLDRZOSOggsbMsyyujv3MRlYNgStMQXoicrFaNcE3y-fjIrHgp96G5JUdy9foWwvLconWI9Xn4t-0TkRh1UF7-VTLCR_Wcv9jhzw5G3DB1CnxStU7Su_sv-7HjBhw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">988lifeline.org<\/a>) for the 988 Suicide &amp; Crisis Lifeline. It\u2019s free and confidential, in English and Spanish.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>YouthLine:<\/strong> Free peer-to-peer support and crisis line for youth up to age 24. Call <a href=\"tel:(877)%20968-8491\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">877-968-8491<\/a> or text \u201cteen2teen\u201d to 839863. Youth available 4-10 pm (PST), adults available all other times.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Help coping after community violence: Call or text <a href=\"tel:(800)%20985-5990\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">1-800-985-5990<\/a> for the Disaster Distress Helpline, which offers 24\/7 crisis counseling after trauma or tragedy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>The Everytown Survivor Network<\/strong>: (<a href=\"https:\/\/l.facebook.com\/l.php?u=http%3A%2F%2Feverytownsupportfund.org%2Feverytown-survivor-network%3Ffbclid%3DIwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTAAcGRvZgFicmlkETFsN3d6SjFzdjhOZ05BZHRWc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQQMjIyMDM5MTc4ODIwMDg5MgABHvzn0Px8gmv0GkmaNDWrwQyX_JfuZFv9-lp_mhFoFRJeeydZbsWqKWUVJNrW_aem_W08i8UPwwuJZ0NWt22pLEg&amp;h=AUDaGSpS1NSn58_EKOK0NdpUgKq6CSx9iyRRj5Y41ZCk4RlqPFtdtPk1kgpPTCqkbljQ1GKsIsAPZdXiFRdrANZmZTivXIu8vOURNQmCCr9s1BO8bymYrFrUVh7LmwpBpG0UyCIJxBa7STrsfz4o&amp;__tn__=-UK-R&amp;c[0]=AUBkOoUVEF6AA1g0546dwAVBitAjVVhUr-vrmU-KBH2ufmyMa55SgQpRKMsS81iyxRIPh44D6Kp8s2JxKp_vY1gzW0yGG91gnjLDRZOSOggsbMsyyujv3MRlYNgStMQXoicrFaNcE3y-fjIrHgp96G5JUdy9foWwvLconWI9Xn4t-0TkRh1UF7-VTLCR_Wcv9jhzw5G3DB1CnxStU7Su_sv-7HjBhw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">everytownsupportfund.org\/everytown-survivor-network<\/a>) offers emotional support, community connections, and information on victim compensation programs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Community Partners that are providing offerings of comfort and community care. <\/span><\/strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><em>Check with organization\/business directly to see current offerings<\/em><\/span><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-8f761849 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP\/\/\/yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7\" data-src=\"https:\/\/rop.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/image.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-40541 lazyload\" style=\"aspect-ratio:0.7734895903011276;width:437px;height:auto\"><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1103\" height=\"1426\" src=\"https:\/\/rop.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/image.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-40541\" style=\"aspect-ratio:0.7734895903011276;width:437px;height:auto\"><\/noscript><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Free Grief Ceremony<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>All Together Now<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A community singalong for Hope and Healing, hosted by KPOV.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Friday, Oct 23 6-730pm <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Commonwealth Pub, Bend<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Join your community on Friday 10\/23 as we raise our voices together through familiar songs celebrating hope, love, resilience, and the port of community. No singing experience needed. Just come as you are, bring your heart and share in the comfort and joy of music. <\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><mark style=\"background-color:#F8E687\" class=\"has-inline-color\"><a href=\"https:\/\/allyshipinaction.com\/2026\/10\/16\/navigating-community-grief-and-trauma\/?fbclid=IwY2xjawU_Se1leHRuA2FlbQIxMQBwZG9mAXNydGMGYXBwX2lkEDIyMjAzOTE3ODgyMDA4OTIAAR5AArDlsjZdBMm-DKd3eElQyMxmL_rcvz17kMTRCbLYfCrluIBVfjIYybOIZg_aem_8GkdbjCiQDtbU6mKjp1T5w\"><strong>Allyship in Action<\/strong><\/a> has compiled a more comprehensive list of support resources than what is below that they are continuing to update.<\/mark><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/DegRA0Ll-Il\/?fbclid=IwY2xjawU_jPlleHRuA2FlbQIxMABwZG9mBWJyaWQRMXllcTFBMFJyQmxsWllscVFzcnRjBmFwcF9pZBAyMjIwMzkxNzg4MjAwODkyAAEeIwjXzo2CwsrR0wn9kpO_DP6-o-aLuTzWsMn4o_s9jPd1q4yerkpv8dAcJms_aem_9MAJ_GF6UNS1kzJhSXZSSw\"><strong>Open Arts Center<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/_u\/highdesertmuseum?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTAAcGRvZgFicmlkETFXaDFnbDcwRWRKNGZ1VXdGc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQQMjIyMDM5MTc4ODIwMDg5MgABHsI7Lwhcas17DgHi_8rjBD0x4bSbUNrUGn7aCv_XzOhJH9Q3umwNnFYwObTO_aem_Z2H3vKRZ_1ftTl-14cKLlA\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>High Desert Museum<\/strong><\/a> &#8211; Free Admission<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/DeiPIjxz_d4\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>Tea &amp; Art Lounge<\/strong><\/a> &#8211; Free Art Activities for Kids<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/DeiW8YCuNTK\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>Two Suns Art Studio + Makerspace<\/strong><\/a> &#8211; Creative materials and hands-on tools for expression for Silver Rail families<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/Dein47PR5Ko\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>Bo\u2019s<\/strong><\/a> &#8211; Free meals<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/Dein47PR5Ko\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>almadorada<\/strong><\/a> &#8211; Free hot cocoa and drip coffee<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Aqua Terra Health<\/strong>: Free community acupuncture and a safe space to gather, connect, and support one another. Details on this <a href=\"https:\/\/us.list-manage.com\/z2xZxx3qg8Q?e=d47dc8b1f5&amp;c2id=a61c1a025c4bc8f01e1c9f3f3a79c9be\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Instagram post<\/a>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>The Haven Coworking<\/strong>: <a href=\"https:\/\/us.list-manage.com\/AbDIwQq3Vxb?e=d47dc8b1f5&amp;c2id=a61c1a025c4bc8f01e1c9f3f3a79c9be\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The Haven\u2019s<\/a> doors are open to anyone who needs a place to gather, find comfort, or simply be surrounded by community. Children are welcome, too. Located at 1001 SW Disk Dr.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This site will continue to be updated as we receive resources, please send us resources you are certain are available to office@rop.org. Rhoam Summer\u2019s Family Victim\u2019s Family Injured Child\u2019s Family Injured Teacher Ms. Becky Kaylub Giamanco Community Mutual Aid Deschutes County Health Services Deschutes County Health Services, St. Charles Health System, and Bend-La Pine Schools [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":0,"template":"","areaofwork":[],"kind":[],"class_list":["post-40520","resource","type-resource","status-publish","hentry"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/rop.org\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/resource\/40520","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/rop.org\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/resource"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/rop.org\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/resource"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rop.org\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/6"}],"version-history":[{"count":24,"href":"https:\/\/rop.org\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/resource\/40520\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":40570,"href":"https:\/\/rop.org\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/resource\/40520\/revisions\/40570"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/rop.org\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=40520"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"areaofwork","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rop.org\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/areaofwork?post=40520"},{"taxonomy":"kind","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rop.org\/zh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/kind?post=40520"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}